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Seen Getty Images The Story Today marks Transgender Day of Visibility…amid a wave of anti-trans bills. What do you mean? Yesterday, Arizona joined a wave of states passing anti-trans legislation. In past years that's included restrictions on where transgender people can use the bathroom. Recently, it's evolved to also include limits on access to medical care, trans kids' participation in school sports, and classroom discussions. Texas last month issued a directive to investigate parents of kids who've undergone gender-related treatment. (It's since been blocked.) Supporters say the bills protect girls' sports teams or reserve gender-related conversations for parents. Others — including some Republicans — disagree. Go on. This month, two Republican governors vetoed anti-trans legislation. Indiana Gov. Eric Holcomb said he found "no evidence to support" the claim that girls' sports were under threat. Utah Gov. Spencer Cox pointed to the low numbers of trans kids in sports in his state and the high rates of suicide. As he put it, "rarely has so much fear and anger been directed at so few," adding, "I want them to live." These and other bills came after the trans community experienced its deadliest year on record, with dozens killed in the US last year. What happens now? Today, the trans community marks a day of visibility, a celebration dating back to 2009. That includes honoring transgender people across the world and their contributions to history and culture. President Biden is the first president to formally recognize it. And in the coming weeks, the Education Dept is planning to finalize a rule that would make discrimination against transgender students a violation of federal law under Title IX. theSkimm Just three months into 2022, state legislatures have intro'd more than 230 anti-LGBTQ+ bills — with more than half targeting transgender people specifically. For more on #TransDayofVisibility see here.

And Also...This Where the government might be paying up… California. Earlier this week, the state's task force voted on who would qualify for reparations. In 2020, Gov. Gavin Newsom (D) signed legislation creating the country's first state task force on reparations. Since then, they've been working to come up with a plan, study slavery, and educate the public. But there's been debate about who exactly qualifies for reparations. Now, the task force is saying this applies to descendants of free and enslaved Black people who were in the US in the 19th century qualify — an estimated 2 million Californian residents. But some say all Black residents should qualify. Next up: a proposal goes to state lawmakers for approval. Who probably should've hit the 'unfriend' button... Meta. A new report says that Facebook's parent company paid a Republican consulting firm to turn the public against TikTok. Think: op-eds, letters to the editor, and blaming TikTok for viral trends including violence or vandalism. Even though, ahem, some of those trends were traced back to Facebook. An internal report, shared by FB whistleblower Frances Haugen, found that teens are spending more than at least twice the time on TikTok than IG (which Meta owns). Now, Meta wanted the GOP firm to paint TikTok as a danger to American kids and society. Meta defended the campaign, saying all platforms should "face a level of scrutiny." TikTok says it's "deeply concerned." Who's the latest to weigh in on the Oscars incident… The Academy. Yesterday it tried to clear the air, with the board revealing it had asked Will Smith to leave the show. This is after he hit Chris Rock over the comment about Jada Pinkett Smith's hair (who suffers from alopecia). The Academy says Smith had "refused" to leave. The board also apologized to Rock and said it could've "handled the situation differently." Next up: Smith faces consequences like suspension or expulsion from the Academy. Who's trying to get on the US women's soccer team level... The men. Who we'll miss on the big screen... Bruce Willis.

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Skimm Money On the last day of Women's History Month, here's one more term to add to your lexicon: the gender wealth gap. Because women don't just get paid less than men on average (hi, gender pay gap). They also get fewer promotions, lose more jobs, and are burdened by more debt. Yeah, not great. And it's a complex issue women can't fix alone. But there are ways you can work to close the gender wealth gap.

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Skimm'rs We like to celebrate the wins, big and small. Let us know how your friends, neighbors, coworkers (and yes, even you) are making career moves, checking off goals, or making an impact in the community. Always giving…Noor S (PA). Last year, Noor and her mom began a medical relief initiative to send supplies to India as the country battled COVID-19. They've expanded their efforts and are sending their second set of medical supplies to help Ukraine. And they're getting their third donation ready for shipment.  (Some) Birthdays…Andrew Labovitz (GA), Ron Stocknopf Ben-Zeev (FL), Mike Patella (PA), Janine Sparks (CA), Travis Odom (IN), Jake Gottsegen (FL), Stacie Echelbarger (WA), Yelena Ryabenkiy (FL), Andrea Brea (NY), Lauren Pendergast (NJ), Mary Hill (VA), Claudia Frankel (NJ), Elizabeth Olsem (IA), Jordan Luguerre (OR), David Grout (NY) PS: Paging all members of theSkimm. Reach out here for a chance to be featured.

Skimm More We've said it before, we'll say it again: Employees need paid family leave. Tune into our Instagram live with Parents Magazine today at 4:15pm ET where we'll cover #ShowUsYourLeave and why transparency in paid family leave policies are necessary to get parents back to work. And if you're looking for other smart ways to spend your time… Listen to our news podcast "Skimm This" for clarity on the biggest stories of the week. Tune in to our career podcast "9 to 5ish with theSkimm" for tips to build your resume and "Pop Cultured with theSkimm" for the latest in entertainment and culture. Subscribe to our "Skimm Money" newsletter to keep up to date with your wallet. Sign up for our "Skimm Your Life" newsletter for curated shopping, reads, and entertainment recs. Follow us on the gram, Twitter, YouTube, and Facebook.  Download our app to get it all in one place. Check out our career openings to join our team.

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